A Fond Farewell

Caregiving has many rewards and I hope you find them all. Just remember to look after yourself too! Thank you for giving so much of your time and talents to this website. I have enjoyed reading all of your posts and learned so much from you. I’m sure it hasn’t been an easy decision to set it aside, but what you have given to others online is tremendous. I don’t think you’ll have any regrets whatsoever when you look back on these days and know you focused your attention on your loved ones who need you. You’ll always be a class act! I’m sending you a hug!

Susan, yours was the first fashion blog I followed. Thank you for teaching me about the importance of good basics, a to curate well rounded collection of accessories and Shapeez. You have been life changing for me. I got off track about mid 60’s and now in mid-70’s, I get compliments almost every time I leave the house. I can not thank you enough for all the wisdom you imparted, your willingness to share it, and for your honesty where mistakes were made. You have been invaluable to me. Wishing you and those you love the very best.

Very sorry to see you go although I fully understand. I will miss seeing your posts and hearing about Mr Mickey my love to both of you x

I knew this was coming but will so miss you. Thank you for sharing your life.

Susan I so enjoy what you share! I will find you on facebook. Prayers for your season of caregiving.

Susan, you will be missed, Bless you for all you are doing for your family. You have been delivered to my inbox for many years and I have enjoyed every column you have sent. There’s always something of value, even if it’s just beautiful pictures. I hope this isn’t the end, but certainly understand if it has to be. You are missed even when you don’t publish for a week. You will be in our thoughts for a very long time. Thank you for all you have added to our lives.
Alexandra Mills

I will miss you and look forward to a time you can once again share your advice, ideas and adventures. You have certainly upped my style! Thank you.

Susan, I’ve been following 10 years and want to thank you for influencing me to have a more elevated, classic, simple wardrobe. (I also liked you occasionally throwing in a little boho or combat boots to show that you can experiment as well). Best wishes.

Wishing you all the best. If you ever get to Atlanta I would love to meet up.

Will sure miss your podcasts..God’s Blessings on your caregiver journey..

As with so many others, I have enjoyed following your blog for years. You have generously shared your knowledge and I have learned so much from you. I sold my much-loved business over a year ago, for similar reasons, and asking myself why I was spending so much time doing that, when I need to be spending it with loved ones. I knew it was the right time to let go, and I have never regretted my decision. I am sure you will feel the same way. Prayers and best wishes.

I’m sorry you will be leaving, but fully understand. I have learned a lot from your site. I hope to catch up on Instagram when you post. Best regards
Michele

I’ve followed you for years..I will miss this, but I’m grateful to follow you on Instagram.

Thank you for all of your wonderful posts and ideas. I have also become a caregiver and understand the time involved.
I look forward to your instagram posts- Mary Lou

Susan – You will be missed. Thank-you for sharing your knowledge and love of fashion and teaching us all so much. Thank- you also for sharing your travel adventures and snippets from your life. You have been an inspiration and a joy. I wish nothing but the best for you and your loved ones.

With many thanks and much appreciation
Lisa P.

Susan, I will miss your blog but certainly understand. I looked after my Mom for seven years in her final days and I am now a caretaker for my husband. I appreciate the great clothing and travel advice I have acquired from all your blogs. My husband and friends made a special trip to Asheville (from Greensboro, NC) to eat at the Sunset Terrace after seeing that blog. It was such a memorable evening. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Sorry to see you go. Best wishes for your road ahead.

Thank you, Susan for helping us understand fashion and health over the past few years. I’ve totally trusted your advice!. You are a gem. Your compassion and empathy shine through the articles you’ve posted. I wish you and your family all the best as you go forward.

Have certainly enjoyed your blog. For years living in a quiet little town (now huge, 15 minutes to Charlotte, NC and 35 to Columbia, SC- my wardrobe reflected classic pieces- some blouses from my Mawmaw and great Granny. My wardrobe now has fewer toots and giggles pieces – though a few remain. Now it’s mostly white tops with black, white, khaki and denim skirts, slacks. Sweaters/jackets to change the look. I do wear loose slightly flared lightweight pastel print skirts with white cap sleeve tees and cute sandals or tennis shoes in summer. My hair has length- pony or bun daily- down as often as not. Hoop earrings about 50 cent size or a pearl dangle complete my look. Since knee replacement- heels max at 1.5 inch.. I’m under 5 feet- so never wore over 2.5.. I am also coming up on 77,. Active- just painted my house/interior myself (2 cathedral ceiling hts). After a 3 year battle with the 6 letter curse word- the love of my life gained Heaven 2 years ago. We had both had a disaster first. Determined to have it all the second time- we chose to stay together as long as we loved each other at the end of the day. Our commitment had 32 chapters/years of happilyeverafter. Don’t know why I’m telling you this-except to say- your blogs- your story- have become a familiar part of my journey. This new phase of life will be your most challenging. I pray-so I will keep you and yours in mine. A favorite song lyric always makes me smile. ” life ain’t always beautiful, but it’s a beautiful life”. Bless and Keep. Oh and Thank You.

Susan, thank you for the help you’ve given me all these years. Your example has inspired me to try to look my best every day. I’ll be looking forward to your Facebook posts, as your time allows. I’m sure many of us will be praying for your strength as you devote even more time to your loved ones.

I’ll sure miss you Susan! You and your loved ones will be in my prayers.

Susan- I’ve followed your blog for years and you never led me astray! I retired early (52!) from a pressure cooker job in television in New York. I moved to the center of Connecticut and sold my work clothes. Big mistake! I could have used some of those pantsuits over the years. Shortly after I became the full time carer for my parents- father had heart disease and my mother had dementia. While it was only for a couple of years I stopped taking care of myself. Then I found your blog. I felt like you were speaking directly to me. So full of insight and practical information about self-care. I have always been grateful that you weren’t insisting that we buy all the latest clothing styles. I learned to wear a smaller, more refined wardrobe. You saved me money, my remaining wardrobe and my sanity! So thankful for sharing uour wit and wisdom! I will find you on FB.
BTW, A couple years ago I found the very beginning of your earlier blog. I read everything! Loved watching your journey!
Blessings on you , Mr Mickey and your family.

Hi Susan, I would like to join all the others here in sincere gratitude for what you have given on your site, and also you have my best wishes and prayers in your future endeavors for the next chapter of your journey. (I still have some of the pieces of clothing and scarves that I was lucky enough to purchase from your wardrobe years ago.) They are timeless, so I continue to enjoy them and think of you. Onward we all go. Take care, Mary

Susan, you have been an inspiration. Thank you for taking the time to share your story with us. Be well!
-Nancy

I’m sorry that I won’t see your posts in my email every few weeks, Susan, but I can understand why you’re ending your blog. You have always represented class, poise and integrity to me so I can see why you have chosen to devote yourself fully to caring for your loved ones. I wish you all the best in life. Also to Mr. Mickey. Thank you for all the beauty of your posts over these many years.

I am so grateful for you and all that you have helped me with over the years . You have made a difference in people’s lives . I wish for you strength and peace in this the next chapter of your life. I sent a friend request to you on FB and hope you will keep us updated when you can .

Thank you so very much for sharing your knowledge with us through the years. Invaluable information! The people in your life are fortunate to have you and your decision to care for them speaks volumes about your character. You will be missed more than you know. Sending wishes for health, peace, love and the best to you.

Susan: Many thanks and best wishes to you.

So sad to hear. Caring for our parents is an honor. I will miss your posts, follower since beginning and admire you from a far. Always enjoyed copying your fashion ideas and book suggestions. Loved your travels, Biltmore etc. Thank you so much for all your kindness and devotion to us. I sent you friend request.

Hello Susan,
Please give Mr. Mickey a big birthday kiss from us. As a hospice nurse, I expected that caregiving would soon take all your time, focus and energy. It’s hard but fulfilling work. I will continue to pray for you and your family. If you need any tips, hacks, or anything I can help you with please feel free to reach out to me.

Will miss your blog but friending you on Facebook. You are such a blessing to your parents and Mr Mickey.

Dear Susan and Mr Mickey We have never met or never will , I have followed the odd blogger here and there, all decent people I am sure but yours is the one I have followed since Fifty not Frumpy. I am finding it difficult typing this through gentle tears . I don’t do Facebook or Instagram it’s not my thing. You have become a friend to us all , good sound advice , beautiful classic fashion sense the list goes on .
There is the one time when you were diagnosed with Breast Cancer and I was in awe of your bravery , positivity and I think what impressed me the most was how you shared to us all on your blog. Of course as you know I was diagnosed
not long after you and at that time I remember saying to my self I must be brave as Susan, my lovey family were amazed how I dealt with it.
You are a lovely decent lady and you have taught us all so much from good food to good fashion sense, We have travelled with you and Mr Mickey through Tennessee, fabulous restaurants , wineries places of culture all done with grace and humour.
To you Mr Mickey the craziest socks in America, the shiniest car and those polished shoes who can forget.
Susan life will throw anything at us things that challenge us to the limit. Stay strong dear friend, you cannot be all things to everyone you must take care of yourself too and I do hope one day I will see you back in my inbox as may be
‘Susan now at 70 ‘ let this be AU REVOIR and not GOODBYE.
PAMELA from UK xx

Susan, it has been lovely following your blog since I discovered it a few years ago. It always represented simple elegance and was never beyond a reader’s expectations or budget. You will be missed.

Kindest regards for the future and best wishes to the Sock King!

God bless you. I’ve always enjoyed all of your teaching!
Care giver is a true labor of love.

Susan, receiving your emailed blog posts are always the highlight of my day. I cannot thank you enough for your time, positive thoughts, and the glimpse into your life that you have so carefully and meticulously designed. You have truly been an inspiration to all of us. I have already “friend requested” you and look forward to catching your updates when your busy schedule allows. Best, Kaye Deane Williams

Wishing you many blessings in the midst of this labor of love ..prayers for you and your loved ones and many thanks , I have very much appreciated your advice on clothing , food ,health and books… all you have shared has definitely made you feel like a friend and I am praying you will feel God’s love and presence with you through this. I will follow you on Facebook and Instagram

Susan and Mr. Mickey – thank you so much for enriching my life. WhenI would read the blog and think about my closet, make me chuckle at socks, or feel for you both when times got tough.

God bless you both and thank you so much
Patty V

Susan, You will be missed! However, our loved ones and our commitments to them must come first. You are doing what you should do. May you and your loved ones be blessed in these coming days.

I’ve thoroughly enjoyed reading your posts and will miss seeing them. But, life does require flexibility. Best of luck to you and yours.

You have been an inspiration to me. Thank you for sharing so much of your life with us. Blessings and prayers for you and the ones you care for.

You & Mr Mickey have been such a joy to watch. And your fashion sense have been so helpful to me.
Please take care of yourself while you caregiver.

Warmly
Karen

Being a caregiver is the hardest job of all. You have done so much to help me in choosing the right thing to wear to various activities and feel confident. I’ll be 70 in November (can’t believe it) and I too provide care to my 2 grandchildren (6 and 8 years old) as well as my son when they need me. That’s why I moved from Tennessee to Indiana in January 2024. A lot has happened to me over the years I’ve followed you…retiring from teaching 8 years ago after 42 years, ex spouse died 5 years ago, moving, class reunions…well, like everyone else, life doesn’t stop. Thank you so much for your blog and suggestions which were always with thought, caring, and intelligence. God bless and be with you as I keep you in my prayers during this time of change.

God Blsess you and your loved ones…you will be missed.
xoxo
Rosemarie

may YOU and Mr. MICKEY continue to be blessed!! I will def miss you each and every morning. Take good care of your loved ones. Most important job on our earth.

may you and Mr.Mickey contiue to be blessed. I will miss you every morning. YOU MADE MY DAY!! Take good care of your loved ones. Most imp. job on this earth!!Her’s to You and Mr, Mickey good health and happiness

Thank you Susan for being my virtual mentor over the years. I started following you sporadically as Fifty not Frumpy and continued with Susan After 60. I am not nearly as elegant as you day to day, but put the ideas you present when I need to be put together, Thank you for helping me.

I wish you well as you transition to full time care-giver. Remember you can’t fill from an empty cup.

Peace, Julia Swagger ❤️

Sorry to hear this, but your family comes first. I will follow along on facebook and instagram.
Thank you for all your good advice over they years.

I always looked forward to your posts and enjoyed every one. Learned so much Will miss you but understand.

I had a feeling your wonderful blog was coming to an end the other day. I wish I had been wrong, but I completely understand. Your online diary of a beautiful life was the very best! Many, many thanks for all the wisdom you have shared so freely and willingly over the years. I’ve admired your style, purchased your clothing recommendations, and cooked your recipes; I will continue to be guided by your excellent taste in the years to come. Thank you for keeping your website open! And thank you so much for always being YOU! I wish you the very best going forward.

Susan, your blog has always been my favorite! I have learned so many wonderful tips for being a more put together me! You have inspired me to present my best self! Thank you so much for your years of helping women be their best version and truly more feminine! I wish Mr. Mickey the best, he’s a true renaissance man! I pray your parents are in good care and peace during this time❤️ Love to you on this new journey and many hugs! Thank yoy

Blessings to you in this season of your life. I have really enjoyed your posts so I will continue to follow you on Instagram. ❤️

Dear Susan, I have been so blessed by your blog. I never felt other fashion blogs spoke to me. I felt perhaps as a 60 yr old, I was being left out, even though I felt young. I found your blog and everything changed. Your blog addressed a forgotten demographic, but you made us all feel good and want to look good. I have to say I learned something from every single post, whether it was clothing, jewelry, proper diet, or your travels with Mr. Mickey. You taught us about quality over quantity, the versatility of basics, and how to put outfits together. Because I have the same coloring as you, I learned what colors look best on me and which to stay away from. You didn’t just tell us “what” to wear, but the “why” behind it. You made us all feel confident and better about ourselves. I warmly wish you well as you move on to this next phase in your life. It just confirms that you are truly a remarkable individual. The world needs more Susans.

Susan,
You have been an inspiration to so many. I thank you for all of the advice. I wish you luck and encouragement in this next chapter of your life and will watch for updates when you are able.
Kate

Susan,

We will miss reading your posts. Thank you for sharing your expert fashion advice and your life with your readers. Your dignity, joy for life and delight in beauty have been a bright spot.

Sending you love and prayers as care for your circle of loved ones. They are blessed to have you in their lives.

Linda Nowlin

You were the first blogger I read. A friend and co-worker and I read your posts and discussed them at length. You have been such a great blessing to my life and hers as well. I look forward to your occasional posts. Happy birthday to Mr. Mickey. I wish you both the best. Take care of yourself as you give care to others.

Susan, I wish you and Mr. Mickey all the best, and know you are in my prayers! Thank you for years of wonderful fashion, and nutritional advice! I will miss your posts! God bless!

I wish you the very best and will miss you.

Susan,
Thank you so much for all of your wonderful emails & advice with style. I will miss you but totally understand the need to take care of your loved ones. They are blessed to have you.

Blessings & Love,
Susan S.

You, your parents and Mr Micky will be in my prayers. Caregiving is a gift you’re giving and you are very loving person to give this gift. Take care of you also. I found you during Covid lock up and you have been a dear friend since. I have loved your advice and help. You will be missed greatly. Sending gentle hugs to you, Peg

I wish you, Mickey, and all of your family the best. It has been a true joy to follow and learn from you through the years.

You will be missed! I will follow you on Facebook and Instagram. Prayers for you as you continue in your role as caregiver.

Susan, you gave me such a fright when you started your post with Mr. Mickey. My thoughts raced that something had happened to him! Whew! Happy Birthday, Mr. Mickey!!! I know how much time and effort it takes in caregiving, but it was a joy that my husband and I shared in taking care of mine. And we continue to bring up those fond and sometimes funny memories. I don’t see this as A Fond Farewell; I see this as an extended break. Take care of yourself. Love to you, your family, and Mr. Mickey.

I will continue to follow you on social media, Susan, but I will certainly miss your blog—best wishes to you and Mr. Mickey.

Happy Birthday Mr Mickey & many more!
Susan, I’m a long time follower of yours. Its heart breaking what each one of us have to go through in life. I sent you a friend request on Facebook and all ready following on Instagram. Take care my dear, hugs & prayers ❤️

I have enjoyed your posts and will miss them.
God Bless You.

I have looked forward to and enjoyed every single post over the years and I feel I have looked more put together because of you. Bless you and and your loved ones ❤️

Dear Susan, I have always looked forward to reading your blog. It has been a breath of fresh air to step away from all the negative news we are constantly bombarded with today. Thank you so much for sharing your life and skills with us. It has been helpful to me. I will remember you and your family in my prayers. I commend you in your endeavor as a caretaker for those you love.

I have enjoyed your email messages and have sent a friend request on Facebook and will follow you on Instagram. This isn’t a total farewell because we can stay connected through the other places online. I’d like to share with you my recent move to Tennessee from Colorado. I love this state and I’m near my brother. Family is important. I pray for you in your new role as caregiver.

You will be greatly missed by so many that are not on any social media sites, by choice.
This is the only site to which I have asked questions, as it does not insist on an account.
Could you not keep this blog, which does not require an account, instead of the Facebook or Instagram (which DO require accounts)???

Thank you for taking the time each week to post ideas. I’m sure some weeks were a chore and you pushed through. As a nurse myself I hold a special place in my heart and daily prayer time for the caregivers. We, as most churches do, have long list of those who are ill and I always include those caring for them. Until you experience it yourself you don’t fully understand the daily care, appointments, medications and treatments that must be managed. Emotional support of a loved one as they go through this season of their lives can be difficult. My husband and I are currently dealing with an adult son living with mental illness. We attended a local support group meeting and found it very helpful. Just knowing that many others are dealing with the same issues gave us hope and a new outlook. I felt, as a nurse, that I knew how to deal with this…I was so happy we went to the meeting. So, if you have the opportunity to attend a local meeting for caregiver support I’d encourage you to do so. Remember to take some time for yourself. My best to you and your family.

We will miss you. ! Thanks for everything over the years.

Oh Susan. We will miss you so much. You’re an angel to devote yourself in this way. I have learned so much from you. Thank you for these sites. I will continue to follow you on your new sites.

I, and everyone else, can certainly understand your need to step back. Caregiving is much more than a full- time job. I wish you and your loved ones all the best during this trying time. I have enjoyed your posts immensely, and will miss your lovely smile, wonderful advice, beautiful outfits, and the snippets you shared of your life with Mr. Mickey and your family. My husband has been ill for a couple of years and began hospice care at home four months ago. Much sooner than we expected. I am busier now than I have ever been, even when employed full-time. Being a caregiver also means having considerably less “down” time, and less time to see friends for even brief periods. Please take care of your own well-being. Caregiving for a loved one can be a demanding, regimented and exhausting endeavor, no matter how much you love the person. The hospice nurses keep telling me to get out more to see friends, even if for only an hour. Sending hugs and love. I will try to connect via Facebook.

Your dedication to your family speaks volumes about you! I think your followers have always known what a loving and caring person you are and that you live your values. You are an inspiration and a role model. I will keep you and your loved ones in my prayers.

You are my favorite blogger and I have been a follower since your early years. I love your advice and have learned a lot. I will miss your regular posts. Thank you!

I will miss your fashion advice and style
Best to you and yours.
Be Well

I have so enjoyed your sharing your life with us here. I had always hoped we would meet in Asheville of Hilton Head at one of our visits there. That did not happen as I don’t think our times there coincided with yours. Praying you are given strength, patience, Love and Joy in your role as care giver! Thank you again for all you have shared!

Thanks for all of your wonderful posts over the years. Wishing you all the best. I understand the role of caregiver. I am one too. I will follow you on FB n Instagram. Sending support to you!

I have enjoyed every post you have shared with all of us. You are a lovely and classy lady and admired. I wish you well in your new journey as I have shared such with my Mom and know how challenging and rewording it can be. May you remain such a special person.

Thank you for all of your fashion advice over the years. You are a very classy and loving woman.
I will keep you and Mickey in my prayers.

. Blessings,

Susan, I understand what you are going through. Your blog will be missed. I’ll follow you on FB. Happy Birthday to Mr. Mickey! Take care of yourself.

I would like to thank you for all the advice and inspiration that has improved my life. Wishing you and your loved ones all the best and please take care of yourself as well.

God Bless you Susan. Caregiving can be so difficult but I know that for you it is also a labor of love. I hope you make time for yourself in this next chapter. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and ideas with us over the years. I have found inspiration in many of them. I will continue to follow you on Instagram – thanks for letting me know about that.

I’m sad to see you leave your many fans including myself. Your solutions for solving our outfits dilemmas have been ever so helpful.
.from one who has been there I know It’s exhausting and heartbreaking to care for those special love ones. It’s also treasured time to ease their transition through end of life. take care

Susan you have given us years of enjoyment and enlightenment on making the best choices for one’s look. Thank you for sharing your life and your expertise with us, and I wish you so very well on what you are doing now, which I will term “The Lord’s work”. Take good care of yourself while giving go much, and Bless your journey!

Sorry you need to step back from posting your lovely posts which I looked forward to reading. I too oversaw the care of my very elderly parents and understand your need give your loved ones your full attention.
Thank you for all your wonderful posts and great ideas.
I wish you all the very best. Your folks and Mr Mickey are very lucky to have you as my parents were bless to have me, and my sister too ❤️❤️

Hi Susan
I was not surprised to read your latest blog; being a carer is not only time consuming but also mentally exhausting and there are only so many hours in the day.
I was quite late to the party, having only followed you for the past 2 1/2 years but I have learnt so much and with a few tweaks of my existing wardrobe have changed my look considerably. Indeed, when I adapt my clothes my husband often says ‘was that your friend Susan’s idea?’ That is how I think of you, as a dear friend whose advice is most welcome.
I will try to follow you on Facebook.
Do take care Susan and thank you so much for your blog. Look after yourself.

Best wishes!

Thank you for your years of dedication and hard work. I have learned alot and appreciate your wisdom. I wish you and your loved ones all the best. God bless you.

Susan:
We all will miss the wisdom you post on Susan After 60. Thanks for letting us know about the next chapter of your life.
Remember to take care of yourself as well.

You will be missed! I’ve followed you for 10 years and have put in a Facebook friend request so that that can continue. Your devotion to your family (including your adventure partner) is so evident and I wish you well always. Thank you!

Dear Susan, thank you for the many years of your good fashion advice. You look wonderful in your outfit to celebrate Mr Mickey’s 91st birthday celebration. I complete understand your decision, caregiving is a full time job and I know you want to be fully engaged with those who you are caring for. Please also remember to “care for yourself”. I have also had a short hospital stay in May and I have a new found respect for nursing/caregiving staff, these people are angels who do the job of mums/husbands/wives/children/friends as well as nurse. I shall follow on FB/IG from time to time. All the best for the future.

I will miss you yet fully understand the importance and responsibility of being a caregiver. It’s an honorable act to be willing and able to care for your loved ones. All the best ahead for,Mr Mickey and your parents. God bless you.

It has truly been my pleasure following you for several years. Your advice has always been spot on. After being the caregiver to several family members and having a family of my own to take care of I can appreciate how draining that job is. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your loved ones.

Thank you for all of your sharing all of your great ideas on clothing and places to visit! Good luck to you and Mr. Mickey!

I am so sad to hear that you will not be posting your blogs. Your priorities are certainly in the right place. Best of everything being a care giver. You have been an inspiration to me and your words and fashion choices make sense. Best to you and your family. I will miss you my friend.

All my best to you in this journey. I have loved following you for the past 10 years. Your style and grace have been and continue to be inspiring as a daily life well lived. I have loved your style and lifestyle advice. It has been fun to watch your adventures with Mr. Mickey. Be well!

Thank you for sharing your life with us
Good luck with everything that you do from now on
Best wishes from south Wales UK
Regards Gloria

I have enjoyed your blog and I will miss it
I wish you nothing but the best in your future ✨️

I will surely miss your informative blogs. May God bless you, Susan.

Susan what you are doing is a gift to you! It’s so special to care for your mom and beloved Mr Mickey, I text from experience. My mom is no longer on earth with us but she lives on in my heart! I was there for her last breathe and it is something I treasure.

Take care of them but try not to neglect yourself! Best wishes in this journey.

Thank you
Connie H.

God bless you. I’ve been in those caregiver shoes and it is, indeed, a full time job. When and if, you are able and inclined, we’ll be happy to hear from you again. Keep your own energy safeguarded so you can fulfill this demanding role. Annette Kleinhenz, Indiana.

I mill miss your posts and the great ideas you share, but mostly I will miss your and Mr. Mickey’s adventures and warm regards for your online family.
Warm regards,
Lu

I’ve learned a lot from you, Susan, and my closet shows it. Huge thanks from a fan! Best of luck with your labor of love. I too have been in the same position and lost my dear dad in 2011, Mom in 2015. I miss them every day still. As I look back I’m glad I cared for them with love in their final years—they were good years despite everything. ❤️

Susan: Thank you for sharing your advice, your ideas, your classic style, your adventures with Mr. Mickey, and, most of all, your sincerity.
It has been a pleasure to “know” you. I wish you and your family sunny days, although we all know that a few rain drops can’t be avoided now and then. I admire your devotion to your family and to Mr. Mickey. ….and, please wish him a belated Happy Birthday!

I never comment but have followed you for a number of years. Good luck and take care of yourself.

I am sorry that you will be ending your posts but having been a caregiver I understand that has to be the priority. I have learned many things from you over the years and wish you all the best in this new chapter of your life.

So sorry to hear we won’t be hearing from you with your blog. You will certainly be a wonderful caregiver and God will bless you for this.

Donna

I’ve never commented before but have enjoyed your posts when I first discovered your blog Fifty not Frumpy, then Susan After 60. You’ve given me inspiration over the years for organizing my wardrobe and a healthy lifestyle. Wishing you, your family, and Mr. Mickey all the best that life has to offer. ❤️ Warmest regards – Jackie from St. John’s, Newfoundland, Canada.

I understand completely. Good luck and remember to take care of yourself as caregiving can be very draining.
I wish good health and best wishes.
Leslie

Please keep in touch prayers for all of you. Even if it’s one a quarter we would all love to keep in touch. Blessings and prayers

So sorry to see you go…but family comes first! Your blog has been a wonderful source of joy and inspiration for me. I’m just sorry I found you so late in the game. Wishing you and yours well as you transition into a new phase of life.

So sad to read about your dear love ones. They are so lucky to have you. I, too, have been a caregiver to my most loved ones. God Bless you. I just sent a message to you through your Facebook page. Although I was not able to put together a reunion with you and Mr. Mike I still would love to continue reading your messages. They brighten my day indeed.

Susan, you will be so missed. I have learned so much from your blog over the years and am sad this will be your last on this site.
However, what a wonderful caregiver you and your sister will be to your Dad and for your Mom as well. I have no doubt they will be comforted by their daughters selfless desire to help them and to receive the love they will have to the end from you both.
My sister’s and I were with both our parents to the end and we have no regrets but many wonderful memories of that special time together. I hope both of you will also.
Take care and God bless you all.
Tears and smiles,
Clara from Iowa

I’ve enjoyed both your clothing and life journeys. I have learned from them both. Bless you as you enter yet another phase of your life.

Best of luck, Susan, in your role as a full-time caregiver. As others have said, please remember to take time for some self care as well. I have followed you since the Fifty Not Frumpy days and have enjoyed your advice and getting to know you and Mr. Mickey through your posts. I will be sure to follow you on Facebook. Good-bye for now.

Dear Susan,

It has been a pleasure to have gotten to know you over the years. I truly understand about taken care of those
we love. My mom turned 94 in May. She still lives in her house and takes care of herself and home. We do live
a few miles away but I go and see her often.

I will look forward to your future updates.

Sad to see you go but with parents in their 90s myself I totally understand. Hope to see the occasional post showing your impeccable style and grace. Take care of yourself. Caregivers need TLC too. All the best.

Susan, thank you for years of good advice. It has been fun to follow you and your adventures with Mr. Mickey, the consummate gentleman. I wish you all the best in your new role. I’m sure it will be difficult, but you will carry it off with kindness and grace.

Thank you for your classic, simplified and yet elegant style. I have learned so much in the short time I have followed you. Gods blessings on you as a caregiver and to your loved ones.
Rita

Wishing you the best with the challenges of elder care. Know you will be missed by me and so many others. In addition to your timeless wardrobe ideas, I’ve also enjoyed your restaurant and other local forays as I live nearby and am always looking for good ideas. Your less frequent blogs will be welcomed and treasured by me. Please come back soon – and often!

I just received my timeless t-shirts; taking your advice, I have started buying classic pieces instead of the latest fashions. I will certainly miss your posts. However, family must take priority and I totally understand your need to spend time with those you love. Sending prayers and positive thoughts.

I have learned so much from you over the last few years. I wish I had found you sooner. Best wishes for you on your caregiver journey.

I hope in the future if circumstances permit, you will be back with your wonderful articles. Thanks for sharing. You’ve motivated me to look my best and your tips and insight into fashion and glamor have been so inspiring.
God bless you and Mr Mickey as you navigate this new era of your lives.

Over the years I have learned a great deal from you. Our life styles are different and I am older. Yet the lessons apply. Thank you. I will miss you.

My husband of 94 years left me in Sept. I have taken care of him for the last 5 years. However, the last 10 months were the most intense of my life as he remained at home. As you much know caretaking takes you to a deep place within yourself.

Take good care of yourself as best you can. Life can be full until our last breath.

Reach for this life. It is precious. To give is to receive.

A follower,

Karen

Ah, Susan, your blog will be missed. I so looked forward to your posts for your classy style and grace. Warm good wishes as you continue your works of mercy as a full-time caregiver. I will now be following you on FB and IG. Hugs to you and Mr. Mickey!

I’ve so enjoyed your posts, more specifically, your style. God continue to be with you and your family as you move forward.

I admire your ability to make this decision in order to travel through this next chapter in your life. My prayers are with you and your loved ones.

Dear Susan, I have followed your blog for many years and have enjoyed your fashion tips and always looked forward to what you and Mr. Mickey were up to. I will continue to follow on social media and wish you the best with caretaking. Please make sure to care for yourself too!

Best wishes Susan to you and your family.

I’m fairly new to your posts and will miss seeing you sharing outfits showcasing your classy sense of style.

Happy Birthday to Mr Mickey.
Sorry your email posts are to end but completely understand why. Many thanks for your hard work and for all tips and inspiration I’ve gained in the last few years.
Best wishes to you and those you love.
I shall continue to follow you on Instagram.

Susan. Thank you so much for your years of wise and helpful advice. I am 86 and dress as you do with classic basics but you have inspired me to take another look at my closet and figure out ways to “shop my closet” with the high quality basics I have had for years. (Scarves do wonders)
I have been where you are years ago when I retired from new home sales to be there for my 90 year old mother. It’s the right decision as I know you feel in your heart.
Wishing you and Mr. Mickey and your parents well in the years ahead. Your presence alone will mean the world to each one of them along their aging journeys.
Peace, Nancy Bireley

Susan I understand your need to step back. Having been a caregiver myself I know how exhausting it can be. Please take care of yourself and I look forward to your occasional Facebook and Instagram posts

Dear Susan — You are the epitome of aging with grace, and that has been exemplified by your thoughtful choices in choosing stylish clothing, shoes and accessories. To take that one step further, “Pretty is as pretty does!” Seeing you make the best choice for your family in this season of life without trying to keep it all on your plate is an inspiration of another sort. One that I need! I’m in the “If you need something done, ask a busy woman” season, and for my own well-being, I need to make some hard decisions about just how much I can keep up with. Seeing you make sensible priorities and putting people’s needs first is a wonderful example to me at this time. Thank you for leaving your website up for awhile; your articles about nutrition are helping me in that area of my life, too. Best wishes to you and Mr. Mickey as you navigate this season. God Bless you and your family! And finally, Thank You for being a positive voice in this space!
With warmest regards,
Sharon

Thank you so much for sharing yourself over the years! I have loved your blog.
I’m a caregiver to my 90 year old mom who has terminal lung cancer so I know the time it takes.
Please take care of yourself and your family and I hope to hear from you again.

Susan, I will miss you. I will hunt for any updates at all from you. Mr. Mickey and your family are truly blessed to have you by their side as they need your love and help. Keep in touch with your many friends as you can. Life is taking you down a needed path for now, but we will be here when the time of your return is right. Thank you for the valuable lessons you have given over the years.

I’ve enjoyed your blog so much and the tips and tricks. I’ve been a caregiver. My husband of 51 years passed in 2021. I’ve regained my life and I’m happy again. I wish you the very best as you move into this new phase. I’ll miss you. Be sure to take care of you too!

I have enjoyed your site over the years. I have incorporated many things into my wardrobe. Life changes many things and I have found my life changing also. I have a couple friends who just do not understand why my free time isn’t free anymore. Many things my husband did , I am taking care of, it does make my days different.
I have always been proud to say when I go out I am dressed appropriately. Even if just at home, it feels good to get up get dressed and fix my self.

Will miss your expertise and helpful advice. Best wishes to you and your family!

I will truly miss you

Bless you . I have been the caregiver and it truly is a blessing of love!!

Blessings to you and you family!

Susan – I have enjoyed reading all your articles. Best wishes for your future. Anne Clasper

Dear Susan,

It is a good thing you do, caregiving for loved ones. It is hard, sometimes thankless work, but so worthwhile. Bless you!

I have so enjoyed your thoughts about style, looking good and feeling good. When I retired I changed up my wardrobe with your suggestions in mind. Retired does not equal frumpy! And, I especially appreciate your approach to healthy living.

Good luck with everything. I look forward to your Facebook posts.

Kate

Thank you for all you have shared. Enjoy your time with loved ones. GOD continue to Bless you and yours!

I’ll certainly miss you, but one of the many things I’ve admired about you is your commitment to your loved ones. Best wishes to you as you begin this new phase of your life. You’ve succeeded in so many endeavors I know you will be a blessing and treasured caregiver.

Thank you for the inspiration and wisdom you have shared over the years. I truly wish you all the best and hope you remember to take care of yourself as well. You are beautiful inside and out!

Dear Susan, I am sorry to hear that you’re not going to blog anymore, but I completely understand your reasoning. I have been following your posts for over 10 years and have never commented before. I have really enjoyed your content and have learned so much from your posts. Thank you so much! Love from a fellow style fan in Airdrie, Alberta Canada.

So long, it’s been good knowing you & Mickey! This 85 year old has enjoyed your journey♥️!

Dear Susan,
You’ve been an inspiration to me not only for your classic, always evolving style, but more importantly, for the remarkable way you’ve taken control of your life, didn’t mope around in self pity, but took life’s challenges as they’ve come, found solutions and found joy in everyday events no matter how small. Your adventures around Johnson City with Mr Mickey were so much fun to follow. You and Mr Mickey have truly bloomed where you were planted. Bless you and your family as you navigate these new challenges and know your “blog sisters “ are with you in spirit 24/7 and sending you strength and love. Thank you for so many wonderful years of inspiration and support.

Thank you so much for all of your posts, I’ve followed you since Fifty not Frumpy and I’ve sent a friend request to the New FB page. You and your family will be in my prayers.

Good luck to you! I will miss seeing your post as you are one classy lady. You have been a fashion icon to me.

I have learned so much from you over the years and will miss you dearly. But I was the loving caregiver for my mother, father and husband and totally understand!

Please take excellent care of the Caregiver!!! You are very loved and dear to us.

We’ll miss you, Carrie K

Dear Susan,

I empathize with your increased caregiving role, and send you and your loved ones all my best. A very hard job, but I found it rewarding and being in that role gave me renewed purpose and mission in life.

I have learned so much from you and I will miss you tremendously.

Please let us know how you are doing, I care and know others do as well!

I will miss you Susan but I understand. I too took care of my mother. She died in my home. But you have Mr. Mickey too .. remember to take care of You as well… because if You aren’t OK – they’re not OK. A quick story about a Pitcher. A mother was taking care of her family. Each day her children and husband would come to ask for something – help with this or that – and she’d give it to them … pouring from her Pitcher into their waiting cups. As each one came, she’d pour more and more out of her Pitcher into their waiting cups … till one day there was nothing left, her Pitcher was Empty!! What was she to do, because the Cups kept coming? As she sat there exhausted, she thought how wonderful it would be if I had some extra time to read that book I’ve been wanting to do … and she noticed a Girgle in her Pitcher. MMMMmmm. Then she thought of that movie that just came in to town she’s been wanting to see … More Girgles in her Pitcher! What she discovered was – The way to fill her Pitcher again was to …” Do something that she liked – that made her Happy. Maybe its a day off – get another CareGiver – and have some fun. Maybe its a day at the Spa. Maybe a weekend at a local beach. Maybe that Movie you’ve been wanting to see. Her discovery told her … That just as she was taking care of her loved ones … She had to take care of Her Too!!! So Susan, when your Pitcher get Empty – and I can guarantee it will – make sure you fill it up again with a “Treat to YOU!” Then and only then will you be able to Give to others … because your Pitcher will be filled up again!. Care giving is no joke. It’s hard work and most times we get lost in it. But in order for your to do it … You have to “take care of You Too!” Hugs, Georgieanne

You are sooo inspirational. Always looking gorgeous in all of your outfits. I have gained so much knowledge regarding capsule wardrobe and the classic look.
Take one day at a time as a “carer” and thank you again for all your info with pictures and videos. Much appreciated.
NATALIE
SOUTH AFRICA

Thank you for your beautiful contribution to all you’ve helped and continue to help.

We will certainly miss your pleasant and informative updates as well as all of your help. Best of luck in your new fulltime role as caretaker for you mom. God bless you

Dear Susan,

Again, you are a role model. First, you modeled clothing choices and now, you are modeling what is most important in life to me…love of family.

I am wishing you the best, with a hearty side of strength. God bless you and your family,
Karen in Oregon

Thank you for years of inspiration! I will miss you!
Take good care of yourself!
Sincerely, Sandra Todd

Susan I’ve enjoyed your blog for years and I’ll miss checking for new postings. The best to you,your family and Mr.Mickey. I’ll keep you in my thoughts.

God bless you and strengthen you in this season of the journey. You will be so very missed.

All the best to you!

There are no words to express how much I have enjoyed learning from you. You are truly gifted to share practical and insightful “best version of ourselves” living tips. Most importantly you share your true self in all that life has to offer you. I don’t know another person that I’ve never personally met, that I feel as close to. May the good Lord bless and keep you along with all those you love!❤️

You will be missed. You have chosen the right thing
Blessings
Bev Nichols

You will really be missed! I have been enjoying your blog since I retired in 2016. You are a talented writer, and you have helped me curate an attractive, functional wardrobe. Thank you for your important contribution. My very best to you and your family.

I have been along for your journey through the years and am here now. I cared for my Mom for 9 years and it was the most rewarding, heartbreaking, uplifting, exhausting thing I have ever done. Do take care of yourself; I’ve no doubt that Mr. Mickey will be the best shoulder to lean on when you need it. Lifting you up, sweet lady.

To my forever “Silver Sister” friend that I haven’t met yet . . . Yes, I’m indeed sad to see you go too . . . I’ve thoroughly enjoyed each and every post and still chuckle over the “makeup” lesson video. I’ll be forever grateful for the knowledge you’ve imparted and like a great book, I’ll continue to reread until we can no longer. For sure, your legacy doesn’t end with your blog though as I, and I’m sure many others in this community, have shared your vast fashion knowledge with others. Having had three sons, it has been wonderful to have “fashion” conversations with my DIL’s and sound like I know what I’m talking about, lol. We all agree “column” dressing is a great tip at any age. While I’m not currently on FB or Instagram, I may very well take the plunge to stay in the loop. Hope to see you over there.

And . . . a very Happy Birthday, Mr. Mickey!! I will miss the pics of your adventures to beautiful places, mouthwatering foods, the adorable neighborhood cat and, of course, the socks. Your classy style and the heartwarming things you’ve done for Susan have been so touching to see.

Take good care of each other and thank you both for sharing your lives with us! Forever be blessed!

Susan, so sorry to see you leaving your delightful messages on looking chic! Maybe when the pressures ease you’ll resume your advice!
I cared for my husband for 4 yrs around the clock with no help from anyone. It about brought me to my knees and I am a tough woman! My advice to you is to get as much help from outside as possible! I feel I was so exhausted and overwhelmed I lost myself during that time! Friends disappear when you’re out of circulation. It is not a healthy situation! Caring for yourself is not selfish and is definitely necessary to keep your strength to help the person you love!
Best wishes! God is with you even it may not feel like it at times. You’re never alone!!

I’ll miss you!

Susan, thank you for this blog and all the heart you’ve poured into it. I’ll miss this space, but I’ll follow along on Instagram. Take care of yourself; you have your hands full.

Hi Susan, back to reading more of this blog. I sure agree with your beloved readers. Your time and devotion is invaluable to your blog and has blessed all of us. Your family is lucky to have you now with all of that passion you have given to us. Blessing and love to all. I will see you on Facebook and Instagram for sure.

Thank you for posts over the years – they have been very helpful and inspiring. Wishing you all the best as you enter this new chapter in your life.

I wanted to express my deepest gratitude for your unyielding generosity. You have enriched all our lives so much, always offering your sage advice on fashion, beauty, and healthy living with such remarkable kindness, elegance, and grace. My warmest well wishes go out to you and your family. Please do take wonderful care of yourself too.

Thank you so much Susan and Mr. Mickey for all that you have done to help elevate style. I have learned so much and am grateful for the thoughtful blogs you have posted.
While I will miss you, I understand and have walked in your shoes.
Best wishes for the coming season of life!

Have loved sharing your journey with you and Mr. Mickey. You have given all of us many gifts. I hope our fond wishes follow you wherever this next journey takes you. Take care of yourself and stay strong. And thank you for sharing. You’re awesome!

Hello Susan,
Caregiving is one of life’s seasons and some of us a very privileged to fulfill the role for those we love. I have enjoyed your blog and will continue to follow you. Prayers for peace, love and wisdom during this to time.

I want to thank you for your posts. I found them very helpful and appreciated all the time you put into your blog. I wish you well and hope you are having some time for yourself.

Susan, I will miss you popping into my inbox! I’ve enjoyed following you and your wardrobe ideas.

I will miss your content. It has helped me immensely as I’ve tried to become myself in my 60s and now just turning 70. I Thank you for your tips and advice it’s helped me feel comfortable in my own skin, becoming a more confident person. God Bless You.

you will be missed , take care

Does Mr. Mickey still drive?