A lovely reader named Lu emailed to request a post on choosing and sizing a long coat (overcoat) and the best jewelry tone with gray hair. She wrote, “My hair is about the same color and style as yours, and I have found lately silver-tone jewelry looks better than gold tones on me even tho I am generally warm.”
I have a small collection of pearl earrings mounted in silver. They seem to go with nearly anything and brighten my face. The small dot ones I’m wearing are here. Even if the other jewelry or hardware in my look is gold, I almost always wear silver earrings.
Overcoats should be large enough to fit over sweaters and blazers without feeling too tight. The most versatile and modern-looking full-length coats hit at the ankles or the mid-calf. Knee length and shorter are always tricky to wear with dresses. I chose this gray double-faced wool one because the color complements my hair and will go with the rest of my wardrobe. My coat is from last year, but a similar style is here.
Adding a large brooch or pin to your coat is stylish again so you may find a broader selection. I’ve not seen many pins offered in recent years. A few months ago, I found the silver one at COS. The east/west leather bag is also from COS. However, both items appear to be sold out now.
I comb the sites this time of year for red items. Red is one of my favorite accent colors, but it isn’t always available with a blue undertone to blend with my coloring. Orange-red makes me look unwell. I was pleased to find the wool-blend crop jacket here.
Hi Susan!
Can you provide a link to the black boots you are wearing in this post? They look great with both your jeans & overcoat and would be perfect for church this time of year. Thank you!
Wendy Dunbar
The boots are by Frye and they are more than five years old. These are similar.
Hi Susan, I was so disappointed the Forever Sweater in Azul isn’t available. But now I know what to pay closer attention to in the future. Do you have a current list of your favorite shopping sites or a link to a previous posting of them?
I did get out a pin tucked away in my jewelry box for my royal blue wool coat for the holidays and the owner of Merle Norman certainly noticed when I walked in, and we began a conversation. I have seen a number of pins once again in the stores. Do you think we will see that just for this past fall and winter season? Looking forward to your change in hairstyle. Best Wishes in the new year for you, Mr. M. and your family.
The trend is moving toward more accessories and more dramatic looks. Minimalism will start to fade as it always does after a few seasons. Here is a list of the places I most often shop. Nordstrom – Banana Republic – Banana Republic Factory – J. Crew – COS – Dillard’s – Saks and occasionally Madewell.
Thank you!
What is your opinion on the bracelet sleeves on the red jacket. The reviews are critical. Thanks
I don’t mind bracelet sleeves and ankle pants since I have short arms and legs.
I am not getting your emails any more. I didn’t change anything on my laptop, so not sure why. Could you please add my email to your list.
Thank you very much.
Deborah
It isn’t your fault, Deborah. We are working on the problem. Some email servers are being blocked by my ISP so I’ve had to order a new one.
Thank you for this post. I think the long gray coat looks so modern without buttons. I also have have longer silver hair and am thinking of changing the style. You have excellent taste so I am looking forward to your new look.
It certainly made my day getting a post from you. You’ve been missed! I’m hoping that you had peace-filled holidays and are feeling refreshed. I trust that Mr. Mickey is continuing to gain strength and that your folks are feeling much better as well. Your ensemble looks fabulous and I shall be thinking of you tomorrow as I sit in my hairdressers chair as well.
Rats I was just going to say I like your hair longer! Go long!
I’m almost positive you’ve explained at least once in the past the reason you prefer v-necklines, but can you explain again please? If I have a diamond-shaped face, a long neck, and a small bust and shoulders, how do I choose the necklines that are best for me? I own lots of v-neck tops, but now I’m finding I think I look better in crewnecks.
Crew, boat. or ballerina necklines will be your best necklines. The straight lines of V-necks counter my roundness and make me look a little taller.
I have some really pretty brooches that were my Mother’s, and I have picked up several beautiful ones at thrift stores for very little cost. I was inspired to wear them more often ( along with my pearl necklace) after watching The Crown. Queen Elizabeth looked very classy and wore a lot of brooches.
It was nice to see your post. I really like the everyday look and that you are always ready to go out the door for anything. I think it makes a difference in how I feel for the day. I also always add makeup just to make me feel better.
I’m looking forward to seeing your new hair cut. I really like the longer look.
DItto on the haircut. I finally went Monday and love it. Why didnt I do it in early December? Next year, I’ll do better. Also just bought two sweaters. Always love your educational blogs!
Always love your educational blogs. Ditto on the haircut, I finally went Monday. Next year I will go in early December. Great price on the Banana sweaters, I just got two. Love you!
I love your longer hair! My hair is same color as yours and I go from short to longer frequently. Enjoy switching it up! Praying 2025 brings your family blessings of health!
Happy New Year Susan! For some reason I have not been getting your e mails. I don’t always check my junk folder but will from now on. I did get this one today. I just love red and that wool jacket is beautiful.
We have been working on the failure of email deliveries. I’m sorry that it hasn’t been resolved yet.
I have not been receiving your posts. What can I do to get them again?
We are trying to correct that problem. I apologize for the delay.
I love your longer hair too. And the grey coat looks fabulous on you. I am waiting for the minimalist trends to fade again as I have a lovely collection of glass beaded necklaces etc. Thanks for your post Susan. Lovely to see you back in the New Year! Wishing you and Mr Mickey all the very best for 2025.
I hope you and Mr Mickey have a healthy and happy 2025. I enjoy your posts and have learned much. I love your relationship as it is similar to mine. Although my friend is only four years older I have moved in to help care for him as his health is failing. It’s difficult but what I feel the Lord is calling for me to do. Would appreciate prayers. We have gotten hospice on board and they have taken so much pressure off me. Thanks again for all you do.
Bless you for helping your gentleman friend. He must be so grateful for your help and companionship.
I always enjoy your tips on accessories. My hair is just like yours. My younger niece told me that it makes me look old and I was devastated. But maybe, I need to be more objective. It tends to look too straight. And it does draw attention to my neck. So I can’t wait to see your new haircut. Then, I will make an appointment for a cut. I trust your judgment.
You always look like perfecti! I think your hairstyle now is my favorite style that you ever worn! You do not look like a basset hound! Happy New Year to you & Mr. Mickey!
I look forward to seeing your hairdo change.
I’m looking forward to what you decide to do with your hair. I love your hair! But, change can be good.
I, too, have been missing your posts and am relieved it wasn’t something I did to cause it. Glad you’re working on the issue. I can’t wait to see your new ‘do! Whatever new hairstyle you choose I’m sure will suit you perfectly. Your taste in everything is always impeccable.
Always beautiful! Love your hair, but it’ll be pretty trimmed too!
You hardly look like a Basset Hound, Susan, (ha!) but I understand the feeling.
I’m overdue for a hair cut and need to get that booked.
I appreciate your suggestions and links and while this is nothing to do with you specifically, I just want to say how disappointing it is anymore to pay high prices for inferior fabrics in our clothing – so many of which eventually land in our landfill and oceans and have damaging effects on our environment.
Gone are the days to buy 100 % stylish, lined wool slacks, not just at a reasonable price but, seemingly, no where to find!
Is this just me or are other people frustrated by this?
It’s true! Quality has been replaced with constantly changing styles of low quality.