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Informative, as always, Susan. I also don’t like blouses with pockets over each “girl.” Just adds bulk and draws attention where it is not needed. I heard some designer on television say they (breast pockets) acted like stoplights saying, “Look at me!”
That’s what my granny called them! Great story, Susan! Love your blog!
Thanks for including the information on foundation garments. I see too many women of a certain age who think they don’t need any. Even if you are slim, you body changes after 60 and it’s good to have everything shipshape. It really makes a difference.
Shapeez has made a real difference for me, thanks to Susan’s recommendation. I am sharing my experience as a petite woman, 34DD in a regular bra. I chose the Silkee short, which is the unlined version, as I don’t like to add any extra padding to my bust. (I tried the long-tank version but it was too long for my torso, would show through pants, & I didn’t want to have it hemmed; it also felt constrictive.) No more straps falling down, no more unappealing back fat (or extra belly pooch from the constriction of a regular bra band), bust is supported and minimized, and it never feels tight. I feel so confident wearing these and look slimmer overall! They are expensive bras and with shipping (not-refundable btw) even more so, but I think they are well worth it, thus far.
Thanks for the tips for the well-endowed gal. I know the girls are there (grown women, actually), but everyone else doesn’t need a show.
Bras are the bane of my existence. I was always asymmetrical and then surgery for breast cancer left me even more so. Even with reduction surgery the radiation treatments continued shrinking the affected breast so I remain lopsided. I have a prosthetic but have never felt right wearing it. The most comfortable bras I have are very unstructured and non-padded. Fortunately I bought several to have in reserve because the specific style I love is no longer available. Sigh.
Kathy, I also have the same issues because of breast cancer and reduction surgery and radiation. Have you ever heard of Knitted Knockers, a knitted or crocheted alternative to prosthetics? You might want to check them out. They have a website which is very informative. https://www.knittedknockers.org/. They are soft, lightweight adjustable, Free of charge.
Great tips! Loved the step-in story. That’s what my mother and grandmother called them. Hadn’t remembered that in years.
Thanks for all your great advice for busty ladies. I carry my weight in my bust & wide shoulders.
It’s so difficult not to look like a guard on the football team.
Bebe
I hadn’t heard the term “Step-ins” in decades but that’s what my Mother and Grandmother called them.
Regarding the Shapeez Ultimate, they have been an answer to prayer. I have sloping shoulders and was forever fighting with straps. No longer. And they are so comfortable. When my husband suffered a heart attack, I spent 14 nights sleeping on a cot in the hospital, wearing that bra all day & night with zero discomfort.
Additionally, as a busty petite, I’ve found that adding shoulder pads to my tops provides better visual balance.
Always love reading your tips. My Mom called them step-ins when I was a little girl.
I won’t wear necklaces that fall below the bust-line. The “swing” when I walk draws attention that I don’t want. A choker style or just below but no longer.
Oh how much I giggled at this post!! The crossbody bag problem drives me nuts and I’m just average size in that department. And the step-ins!
Such funny stuff.
Thank you for your informational post. I have the same problems in this area. How do you get Shapeez on?
The best way to put on the Shapeez bra is to step into it and pull it up, not by the straps, but rather along the top/sides of the cups/body. Pulling up by the straps repeatedly may cause them to eventually come apart.
Had to chuckle at the step-ins. The Shapeeze bras are step-in also. That means I get two “step-ins” per morning – keeps me balanced
I had never heard of Shapeez but you can be sure I’ll be ordering soon. Step-in….fantastic
Funny, my Grandmother who was born in 1900 called them step ins! Makes sense because that’s how you get in them…ha
Thank you, Susan! As usual, your blog provides some of the best advice available! I have a similar body-type to yours and have trouble finding cardigans that flatter. It can be difficult to find a thin but elegant knit that’s not overly long. I assume it’s best to avoid buttons and pockets, too. But even when I find a clean and simple cut, I have issues figuring out how to wear a cardigan—covering my chest or pushed to either side of my bustline. Does anyone else have this problem?
So good! Your honesty is refreshing
Thanks for the always informative blog, & the sweet memory of my daddy using the word step-ins!
Have you had any problem with the tank style riding up?
No problems at all. In fact, I pull my “step-ins” over them so that they are anchored in place.
There’s an excellent lingerie store 6 blocks from where I live where I’ve been buying what I call “anti-gravity” bras for a couple of years. I know from experience that a good, well-fitted bra is almost life-altering — it not only gets the girls up where they belong again so you look younger & your clothes fit the way they’re supposed to, but it does away with slipping straps & pinchy spots. I’m finding (unhappily) that even tho I’m not overweight, things aren’t as tight & taut as they used to be, I’ve got squishy bits that create little rolls in the most unattractive places & I’m just busty enough for gravity to make some nasty inroads. The store carries a large range of Shapeez, and I’ve made an appointment for a fitting late next week. Honestly, I can hardly wait! LOL! Thanks for the detailed information, Susan. I don’t know if I’d ever have tried these without your input. [Have never heard the term “step-ins” before, but my (very British) mother & g-mother called them our “smalls”.]
Thanks for sharing Susan. I’m wondering if you have breast implants? You were much smaller chested in your younger photos. I got implants 20+ years ago after 2 babies left me with with “marble in a tube sock” breasts. Even implants tend to sag a bit after several years. Some say you should have them replaced after 15 years, but I haven’t had any problem with mine. I’m all for loving our natural selves but if a procedure can improve your self-esteem, I say go for it.
All of my parts are original. After gaining and losing about sixty pounds more than once in my life, the “girls” were the last bits to go down in size (at least somewhat).
Susan, your hair is longer and styled differently. Looks fabulous. I am letting my white hair grow out finally and am loving it. Certainly is time at 76. Have been saving your posts for over two years…now I have got to figure out how to follow you. Again, you look “mahvalous dahlin'” as we say down South.
I entered your email address so that you will get a notice whenever I publish a new post. Thank you!
I finally figured out how to follow you. But I would appreciate the email as well. Thanks a million.
Hello Susan. Thank you for the advice and the referral to Shapeez. Unfortunately, Canadian readers of your blog and visitors to to the Shapeez Canadian website are not offered any promo codes whatsoever and their shipping charges are double that of our American neighbours. I have placed an order with the company nonetheless and look forward to trying this garment.
Thanks for the tips. Not many people help us busty gals!
I am going to order a Shapeez bra, and I wondered if you feel the foam cup makes you bubble out the top. I have found that happens to me when the bras are cut lower in the front and with foam cups, even when I have been fitted with the proper size. I’m hoping the Shapeez will not do that. I know most minimezers flatten the breasts, and that’s not attractive either!
I do not have cup overflow with the Shapeez bra. The formed cups do not have much padding at all but they do keep the nips from showing through, and they shape the bust nicely in a natural-looking way.
I was excited to find a Busty woman who could recommend a bra. But was disappointed at the price. Not in my budget. So I’ll keep looking. Love your tips.
I love your page!!!!!!! Wonderful.
I like slacks, jeans,leggings, but also love skirts since they are feminine. I’m 5’3″ and would love to have more information
on best looks for skirts with boots, tops, etc.
Skirts and dresses are not my favorite items to wear. I have only one dress and one skirt, and both are mid-calf length or longer.